Me and Marilyn Monroe
Last Monday I had a great tour of the Marilyn Monroe exhibit at the Women’s Museum at the Texas State Fair in Dallas. Her clothing was so "Marilyn" and photographs were great! You don’t want to miss this exhibit – and all the rest of the museum full of wonderful stories of neat women throughout Texas history. I stepped outside with my friend Evy Kay Ritzen who was with me and our group of 99 women who make up the class of 2006 Leadership Texas. It was our last session in Dallas – our graduation.
We listened for a minute to the Marine Corps Band! Evy Kay and I decided to walk over to see another old building on the State Fair Campus… and instead of taking the sidewalk – we took a shortcut across the grass. I had on new and oh so cool high wedges and immediately took a bad tumble. My friends heard a crack, I gracefully sat on the ground and then the story began…. my first ride in an ambulance, a visit to Baylor Emergency with fellow LT sisters, Evy Kay and Penny Beaumont, and of course, a broken ankle and new crutches.
So, to make a long story short, I received this wonderful insight from Edward Smith who said to “Incorporate "after action reviews" into your life.” He explained that the military uses these to analyze how an operation went after the fact. You can use these same questions to review how things are going in your life. This prevents you from making the same mistakes over and over again, and builds on your successes.
These are the questions they ask and how I would answer them after the fact:
1. What was our objective? Evy and I wanted to get to the DAR Museum to peek inside as fast as we could before the buses left for the Dallas Arboretum, where we were to enjoy the gardens and dinner.
2. What actually happened? We stepped off the sidewalk to take a shortcut across the grass in my cute new high heels and I broke my ankle.
3. Why did it happen? I did not calculate the risks for swiftly walking into uneven grass in heels. I took a shortcut.
4. What are we going to do next time? Take the sidewalk – sometimes taking a shortcut has its consequences. Also, I will gingerly consider when and where to wear my cute high heels. My husband Ben says, “Get rid of the heels Jackie! You are a significant even without the heels!” Thanks Ben!
(As I write this, I am longingly looking at my beautiful closet full of beautiful high heels balanced on my crutches….and thinking about Marilyn Monroe.)
